What would you do if you wanna get out of a -phony friendship but you don't want to lose this special friend?

Well, I would give him a chance first. If you just cut him off, he will never know what he did. The things you don't like might just be his personality and he has no idea it bothers you. Just tell him that you need to talk to him, and be nice about it. Don't accuse or anything. Just tell him the way he makes you feel, and let him know that if he can't fix it then you will probably try to get away from the friendship because a friendship should build you up and not knock you down =)